What makes a good lover
Good sex - what is that?
What actually makes a good lover? What is good, satisfying sex? There's no blanket answer, and there is no magic formula for good sex. Everyone likes different things in bed. Not every woman prefers a man with a big penis, and not every woman is into hours of intercourse. Personal preferences differ from person to person.
Good sex doesn't have to happen only between a couple; for good sex you don't even need to know each other well.
What makes a good lover
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Sex - A good lover[/caption]Basically, a good lover shouldn't only care about himself. He should respond to a woman's needs. To be a
lover, you first and foremost have to be able to talk about sex with your partner. How else would you know what the woman likes and what she doesn't? Of course, with a one-night stand you don't want to spend hours chatting about sexual preferences first. Still, a good lover should have a feel in bed for what a woman wants. Besides, you can read a lot during the act and also ask playfully along the way. During sex, a good lover simply has a knack for the woman and doesn't just selfishly think of himself. He takes his time with the woman's body, because there are hardly any women who don't like having their body pleasured with a tongue. A good lover also tells the woman what he likes and loves. He's confident but not a macho. He knows what he wants and doesn't hold back. He shares his wishes in a way that doesn't create negative feelings. If he wants a blow job and the woman makes no move to do it on her own, he whispers in her ear that he'd find it incredibly hot if she pleasured him orally. Communication is simply key.
Good sex for both
Often good sex is truly satisfying for only one person, and only one feels reborn afterwards. This doesn't happen to a good lover. He doesn't even let dissatisfaction spread. In the end, ideally both should reach orgasm.
Sex - A good lover[/caption]Basically, a good lover shouldn't only care about himself. He should respond to a woman's needs. To be a lover, you first and foremost have to be able to talk about sex with your partner. How else would you know what the woman likes and what she doesn't? Of course, with a one-night stand you don't want to spend hours chatting about sexual preferences first. Still, a good lover should have a feel in bed for what a woman wants. Besides, you can read a lot during the act and also ask playfully along the way. During sex, a good lover simply has a knack for the woman and doesn't just selfishly think of himself. He takes his time with the woman's body, because there are hardly any women who don't like having their body pleasured with a tongue. A good lover also tells the woman what he likes and loves. He's confident but not a macho. He knows what he wants and doesn't hold back. He shares his wishes in a way that doesn't create negative feelings. If he wants a blow job and the woman makes no move to do it on her own, he whispers in her ear that he'd find it incredibly hot if she pleasured him orally. Communication is simply key.